Granted, we all have our days where we barely have time to eat much less to send a quick text. Still, that doesn’t excuse giving someone mixed signals by being inconsistent.

At this point, I might sound like a broken record. But, I don’t care. Every action and word spoken are perfect indicators of how someone truly feels about you. Nevertheless, that doesn’t justify their shady actions towards you. It is either he wants to be with you or not. No in between!

If you are in a serious relationship and your partner suddenly become distant. It can be due to the following two things: 1) they are slowly losing and are no longer interest. 2) Or the romance had run its course and it is time for the two of you to move on separately. When that is the case and there is not a deeper issue it is better to call it quits. Waiting longer than necessary for them to change their behavior can only prolong the inevitable. Prolonging the inevitable can cause additional hurt. Keep in mind every relationship is different and this advise might not apply to every relationship out there. But, I encourage you to trust your instincts. If something deep inside of you is telling you that he has change is because he has. Always trust your instincts! The bottom line is someone who really appreciates you would not be inconsistent.

Your Dating Confidant, Dioma xoxo