With age, we become older and wiser! Wiser for having obtained the knowledge needed to break the cycle of repeating the same dating mistakes. Dating is a lot like going to the farmers’ market to buy fresh products. Exercising mindfulness is key when selecting the type of products you should bring home to ensure that they are in alignment with your dietary aspirations. After all, you can’t expect to make tostones without plantains or tomato soup without tomatoes. You get my gist!

No, I don’t think you can be too picky when it comes to dating. It is better to be picky than to settle with someone who doesn’t measure up.

One thing is being overly picky. Another totally different is rejecting an individual because you know you deserve better. The two can be related, yet many are confused by their differences. Why is that? Unfortunately, we have bought into the idea that rejecting what is in front of us is wrong, especially when the person is a ten on paper. Just because they are a ten on paper doesn’t make them perfect or sacred. 

The fact of the matter is that you should reject whatever doesn’t align with you. You are not Temu or Spirit Airlines to cater to everyone. 

Your Dating Confidant, Dioma xoxo