A man expresses how he feels about you through their actions, not just with his words. Saying things without taking action is like cooking without using seasoning, which is very bland. 

Granted, we all have different texting styles of communicating, still that doesn’t excuse inconsistent behavior. When a man is genuinely interested, you will know through his actions, despite being bad at texting.

You are definitely not overthinking it! Plus, deep down, your gut is telling you something doesn’t feel right. So, make sure you listen to it. Giving him the benefit of the doubt doesn’t signify that you automatically have to throw caution out of the window. Oh, no! You can still continue talking to him to find out what his true dating intentions are. Many can say they want the same thing as you, but their actions reveal a different story.

Personally, I think the answer lies behind his lack of communication. His lack of communication is the perfect indicator to uncover how he genuinely feels about you. Maybe, he has a roster and is only giving you breadcrumbs to keep you entertained. Only he knows!

Whether or not you want to communicate with him on how his indifference is affecting you is entirely up to you. If he is so flaky even before going on the first date, imagine how he will be moving forward. He is the man and the one who should be scheduling the dates, especially the first one. His communication style is a red flag and your sign that you should let the connection died. You are better off finding someone who actually communicates like a grown man and not like a child.

Your Dating Confidant, Dioma xoxo