Analyzing the Way Your Partner Makes You Feel When You Are With Them

“How do I feel about myself when I’m with my partner?,”-this is the type of question we all should be asking ourselves. One thing is being in a relationship and another totally different is having to sacrifice who you are, only to say that you are in a relationship. Sacrificing yourself just to be part of a partnership can come with a too high of a cost. A cost that will put you in an indefinite debt eventually threatening your identity and worthiness. No matter the type of relationship, we should consider taking the time to analyze how we actually feel about ourselves when being in a close proximity with someone.

For any relationship to work, both parties have to be willing to put the same amount of work. Of course, there might be instances in where one side gives more than the other and that is fine. But, if one side is constantly providing more. Then it can be easily label as a one sided relationship. Trying to keep any relationship afloat is no easy task. A task that require two people. However, there is a high probability of the boat sinking if only one person is in charge of the rowing.

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Frequently trying to convince someone to admired your amazing qualities can be very exhausting. Do you recognize the amazing person you are and everything you bring to the table? The truth is that we need to celebrate who we are first, before expecting others to do so. We lose so much time in analyzing ourselves to accommodate the needs of  the person we are dating. Focusing sorely on the partnership, can push you to dismiss any lingering doubts that can question whether your needs are equally satisfied. Overlooking this simple fact can alter the course of the relationship. It would be in your best interest to re-evaluate, especially when the nagging feeling of being taking for granted is a constant. No matter the relationship, you should be made to feel special. 

Prioritizing being like by the person you are interested in can often hinder your ability to see beyond what is presented. The fascination can lead you to overlook some important factors that could help determine if they in fact add to your life or subtract from it. Anyone who has access to your life should enrich it. Not the other way around. Questions like the following should be asked and contemplated. These questions shed a light on you liking them, versus them liking you. Do you actually like them or the idea of them? How do I feel about myself when I’m with them? These are needed to be asked to see things from a clear perspective. Unfortunately, that’s not always the case. More often than not, many are unwilling to swim underwater for fear of encountering a scary creature.

Physical attraction is important! Just as vital is to find a partner who is aligned with you. Partnering with someone who easily understands you emotionally and intellectually is like threading a needle. Requiring a few frustrating tries, but once it goes through, suddenly everything seems possible. There is no word to describe the indescribable sensation of having someone in your corner willing to go to the end of the Earth for you. Without a trace, all of you worries suddenly disappear when being in his arms. An added bonus is if his upper arms has develop into massive biceps. Biceps that can also function as fluffy pillows. 

The intention for this particular article is for you to take a pause and carefully evaluate your relationship. Examine whether or not this individual do checked off the qualities you want in a partner. It is a common occurrence to be deeply engrossed in obtaining a specific outcome, blocking the view of what is apparent.

Feeling cherish and having shared visions should be one of the basis of the relationship. Certainly, receiving an earth shattering love accompany with passion is the desire of many, among other things. Things that should be in alignment with what both are seeking. Remember that just because something is shining doesn’t mean that it is valuable. A particular person might be good on paper, but is he right for you? Again I encourage you to ask yourself:”How do I feel about myself when I’m with my partner?”

Stay Beautiful XoXo