You keep falling for the wrong person because you see yourself as unworthy of finding real love. Subconsciously, you think you are unlovable and undeserving. Having this mindset is pushing you to welcome with open arms a lukewarm affection from people you shouldn’t. Receiving any kind of endearment, however minimal it might be, is better than getting zero attention. All this in alignment to your wrongful belief.  

Until you alter the way you view yourself, you are going to continue falling for the wrong person. To stop the vicious cycle, you have to eliminate the mental barrier that keep suggesting you are unlovable and start seeing yourself through the eyes of love. The fact of the matter is that you can’t find someone amazing until you realized how deserving you are of finding a great partner. A partner who loves you beyond the stars and the moon. 

Changing that mindset is no easy task, one that require tons of patience and dedication. Patience in learning how to prioritize yourself over someone’s potential. Choosing the wrong person is easy, but the hard part is choosing yourself while waiting for the right partner. 

Your Dating Confidant, Dioma xoxo