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Thoughts of the Week #2: What is there to figure out?

Week 2: October 6 to October 11, 2024

What is there to figure out? It’s either you want a casual relationship or a serious one. There shouldn’t be no in-between!

How can men in their late 20s and 30s not know what they’re looking for? If you don’t know what you want, then why are you on dating apps? It’s a simple choice: either you’re seeking a serious relationship or something casual. It doesn’t take a rocket scientist to figure it out.

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It’s almost funny but also saddening when a man’s profile says, “Figuring out my dating goals.” It’s so obvious how many men use this tactic with the intention of keeping their options open to avoid being trapped in a relationship. Not only that, but it also offers an easy way out if, for some reason, the connection derails into something serious. Additionally, it’s one of the most unattractive things when a man doesn’t know what he wants.

The dating scene is so messed up because these men don’t want the responsibility that comes with being in a relationship. No, thank you! 

Sorry, but if you need time to figure out whether I’m worth pursuing a relationship with, then you’re not worth my time and energy. If you’re unsure about wanting a relationship, please don’t be on the app wasting the time of people who are seeking something serious.

And there you have it, my TED Writing!

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Video 2: Is by youreitgirl on TikTok

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4 Comments

  1. Thérèse Buchanan
    November 19, 2024 / 8:06 pm

    “It’s one of the most unattractive things when a man doesn’t know what he wants.”
    This statement right here is so true!!!!!

    • shesdioma
      Author
      November 20, 2024 / 3:53 pm

      If he is indecisive about wanting a relationship then he would be indecisive about everything else in life. Thank you for commenting! 🙂

  2. November 19, 2024 / 10:18 pm

    Agreed! If they want to keep their options open, just say so! There will be a girl out there that wants the same. Just make up your mind!

    • shesdioma
      Author
      November 20, 2024 / 3:56 pm

      It is for their own benefit and just to keep their options open like you said. Thank you for commenting! 🙂

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