Why Cheating Feels Simple, But It Really Isn’t?

Week 14: Oct. 11 2025 to Oct. 17 2025

Well, if you asked the CEO who got busted cheating at a Coldplay concert. His thoughts on being unfaithful most likely would have been along the line, “Why not!? As long as you don’t get caught.” 

The number one factor is the belief that the affair will never be discovered. Everything would continue operating as normal as long as the cheater doesn’t get caught red-handed. If the secret romance ever sees the light of day, then you are screwed! 

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You see, the thing about cheating is that it damages the trust and the foundation the relationship is built on. Once that foundation is broken, it can be broken forever.  Some might argue that it can be fixed and return to what it once was. The reality of it is, it can’t.  There will constantly be a voice in your head questioning what your partner is doing and whether or not they are falling into temptation.  

Let’s face it, temptation is everywhere! It’s you job to avoid falling victim to it if you are in a relationship. You can’t go around thinking it’s okay to be with other people while you are in a committed relationship. You can’t bake the cake and eat it too. It’s either you want to make the cake or have a piece of it. That is when troubles arise. Like my grandpa used to say, the overly confident mouse always got himself killed.  

Before flirting with other people, one should first and foremost end their current relationship. Breaking up with a romantic partner who you don’t see no future with or if your heart isn’t in it, is the sensible thing to do.  It might hurt at first, but in the long run, the former partner will be grateful for your bravery and honesty. Instead of you doing the cowardly thing of sneaking around with other people.  

People don’t realize that sneaking around while in a committed relationship is not only costly as well as tiresome.  Costly, from the man’s perspective, in regards, to having to buy double the gifts and make all those hotel bookings. Those things can add up quickly! Keeping track of the lies you tell your partner can be mentally draining.  I’m exhausted just thinking about the lengths some cheaters are willing to go through to continue with the affair.  Is it really worth it?

The moral of the story is simple: do not cheat. And if you think you can’t be faithful, then the decent thing is to break things off first.  The equation is as clear as one plus one equals two. Also the foundation might take a small hit, but in the end, it will spare the other person from having false hope.  Honesty can sting at first, but it doesn’t blind.

The following YouTube short by TheDiaryOfACEO explains it perfectly.

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